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I think he's either deliberatly saying these things to turn you off....so YOU'D be the one to end the relationship as opposed to him having to do it......OR......he could actually be this insane. Either way.....I say dump him and move on.
I don't think he tried to turn me off because when I told him that it's not working for me any more he said that he's going to wait for me because I'll eventually realize that he was the best out there and will come back to him on his terms
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Hey Chipotle.. congratssss for your right decision on right time..... InshaAllah you will find your dream man soon
Best of luck for your search
I don't believe on dream man. I am just looking for some one who's religious and moral values matches mine and who knows that to make marriages work you need to compromise to come to a middle ground. I guess that's too much to ask for
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^Hahaha....good point.
Chipotle, this guy seems to have some sort of personality disorder. Narcissism perhaps? He's not asking...he's imposing his views on you. Telling you that his girlfriends did anything and everything for him and that he's the best thing that ever happened to you.....is not very humble is it? Seems like he has a sense of entitlement.
Don't waste your time even dwelling on why he said those things....or even how you should address the issues with him.....because he seems adamant about his views. Just move on. You're blessed in that you're learning about all these red flags right now as opposed to ...after a wedding.
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WOW, like everyone else said, you are better off without him. he seems like a creep, someone with no life, wants to be updated every hour, does he not work?
dont worry, when the right person comes along you will know and everything will fall in its place naturally ( i know its easier said thn done but trust me it will happen for you when its time). Best of luck.
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Ive met guys like this…where they will start out by agreeing with everything you say and then slowwwly change the rules on you. Try to make it look like thats such a normal thing to do…you know…brush a man’s teeth…comb his hair…spoon feed him baby food…burp him…change his Depends every now and then…its all part of the getting-to-know-you-process.
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You seem to be very strong personality. I commend for leaving this controlling and abnormal guy. And no not every guy is like that. My father has always controlled my mom and i hated it. And this brushing teeth or you not swimming.. i think he needs to go mental asylum.
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Man, you shouldve married him, signed a pre-nup, and one day while your doing your round of wifely duties, such as brushing his teeth, you could stick some corrosive acid/rat poison in his toothpaste.....
Wow, the dude sounds like a creep.