please answer these question ... cuz i am confused

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Re: please answer these question … cuz i am confused

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My cousin was little wise in this case. though her marriage was also arranged but she made very very good understanding with her husband and that kind of made things easy for her.

when her mother-in-law ask her to give her gold jewelry, she simply replied that her husband was planing to open locker at bank and is much safe to keep in bank she (mother in law) should also give valuable things to her son so things stay safe (she did discussed with her husband all this before her mother in law asked her).

how long after walima should you wait to go back to ur parents house? that really depends on situation, at times in-law’s showing love do say themselves that go and see you parents but if not then you can ask you husband when he feels its the right time for that.

what do u do if ur inlaws ask you to give them the money given to u by their side people? Her in laws did inquire to her how much she got cause they wanted to know that if they got good amount compared to what they have been giving on other people marriages. She did told them all about it and even asked them if they want to keep it, (but she asked all that the time when her husband was present before that she was kind of stalling that i have it all somewhere in my bag (big bag) will search in evening, so that her husband be at home at that time.)

i dont know if she kept it or gave it to her in-laws but she was pretty kind of hard for her in-laws to manage in the start. She was full confident because of having good understanding with her husband and never went on her own always included her husband in a very wise way.

and guess what she was a Lawyer by profession

Loll ur cosin was soo chalako