Please advice

[Reha]

Re: Please advice

@Life01

Going Pakistan for this rishta searching. Have a few years of university left and wont graduate till 30. Which as we know is “late” to get married especially for a girl.

Question is if a family wants to pursue things further, should it be a yes and we get married now or should i wait to finish. I have younger siblings but if they are ready then i guess why cant they get married before me?

I dont have a job am still studying is entertaining the idea of marriage at this stage wise only because the proposals we have now we might not have later and I am getting old?

No, its not wise. In this day and age when the divorce rates are at a high all across the board, you should make sure you’re always self-sufficient. A degree is not just part of the rishta package, it also commands respect.

This is especially true if you’re walking into an arranged marriage setup where you don’t know the guy, have no emotional attachment and will not develop an understanding until after marriage. If things go south, you don’t want to be the girl who people feel sorry for. You want to be the girl people KNOW will be okay.

Please don’t think I am scaring you or painting a depressing picture of marriage. Marriage is beautiful but only with the right person. With the wrong one, it can be pretty bad.