Please advice

[Reha]

Re: Please advice

@Jasmine_Tea

I married my husband while in the middle of my professional degree. We had discussed it all beforehand and he was aware that I would have comparatively less time with him, less time for our household responsibilities and minimal financial contribution.

The first year was STRESSFUL. I wouldn’t underestimate the difficulty of managing a new marriage and education together. But I also never regretted getting married when I did. If I had to redo it, I wouldn’t delay getting married to finish the degree just because despite the stress, the marriage added a lot to my life.

I would say though that before getting married definitely get to know the person. Talk about it openly so he understands. Know that your spouse would have to compromise more to make your life easier, and you will not feel good about putting him through it. So before taking on all of that emotional stress, it is important to make sure you have a strong relationship.

I agree with this as well.

Actually living out the process is wayyyy different than anything you can picture in your mind or prepare for.