Planning my brother's "haan" rasm need ideas!!!!!

hi guys !!!
I need some ideas for my brother’s haan rasm. Along with typical mithai and money what else can we take on that day for the bride ,may b flower jewellery bangles .I would really appreciate all new idea or something special that u guys did …. would love all your help !!!

Re: Planning my brother's "haan" rasm need ideas!!!!!

Flower bouquet. Some nice dresses. Maybe a gold bangle (kara)

Planning my brother's "haan" rasm need ideas!!!!!

Is a haan rasam also like a mayoun?

Re: Planning my brother's "haan" rasm need ideas!!!!!

chocolates, nice dress, and a cologne maybe everything nicely presentable with extra effort u know and yes flower bouquet
if u want to put flower jewellery u can chose pink or white I guess
congrats btw I can feel the excitement lol such a sweet sis u must b

Re: Planning my brother’s “haan” rasm need ideas!!!

If you’re giving gold on the haan party, what are you expected to give on the engagement party?! :hayaa:

What is haan rasm?

Re: Planning my brother's "haan" rasm need ideas!!!!!

I think she means when guy side visits the girl's family "haan" hone pe, they usually take a small package containing bangles, henna, perhaps a dress and shoes. It's meant to be something small, not extravagant.

Re: Planning my brother's "haan" rasm need ideas!!!!!

I've never heard of a "haan" rasam.

You could probably take things you might take to a mayun or mehndi, no?

Re: Planning my brother's "haan" rasm need ideas!!!!!

she just means like...an engagement

Re: Planning my brother's "haan" rasm need ideas!!!!!

in our family, when this rasm is done (we call it mun meetha) which is to be followed by engagement party later on, guy's side take with them stuff like mithai, basket of chocolates, dry fruits, bangles,mehndi cone. money and dress for the girl. and yes flower bouquets, gajras too.

Re: Planning my brother's "haan" rasm need ideas!!!!!

It's also called baat Paki rasam when the girl's parents say the formal "yes" to the boy's side.