I am just soooooooooooooo pissed right now… when u ask someone from pak to send you materials (fabric) and specify exactly what you want … why do they send you stuff that they would never wear themselves … Even their maaasis wear better clothes than what they have sent… They have great fashion sense when it comes to themselves… what is up with women in pak not wanting to buy something for others what they wear for themselves…
I was gonna pay…and to top it all … I have appreciated their clothes and they know what kind of dresses I like… I want to mention something but there is an elder involved… Sorry I just wanted to vent … SO SO SO unfair…and pathetic… :tears:
no my dear maham I can't send them back... it wasn't a misunderstanding... how can someone repeatedly agree to understanding something and what they send you is something completely different... and it is not a designer or a home based business ...it is a rishtey daar... that is what makes me mad..... when they send gifts the fabric is right up my alley in terms of designs but when I ask them to buy something for me...they buy the most pathetic designs... aaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggghhhhh
They must send horrible material coz it is cheaper perhaps? Maybe they think you have bad taste. Hence they send you horrible stuff? It could be anything. God knows what goes on in their heads.
hmmmm welll you are saying you asked them to send "fabric" and you say their "dresses "are always stylish....many a times fabrics don't give you an idea of what they could look after getting stitched and even better when worn....so could it be so that what they have sent might look cool when you get it stylishly stitched?my thought :)
i can imagine. i have aunties who send rubbish to my cousins abroad all RUBBISH saying ‘wahaan sub chalta hai’ , ‘wahaan fashion ki kya zaroorat’ , ’ kabhi kabhi tau pehennay hotay hain’ , etc
i think its their way of "pretending" to not have good taste so that we dont ask them to send us nice stuff again. ive experience this myself and im NEVER asking a relative to send me clothes EVER AGAIN!
same problem here.on the phone they tell like>: we bought you pretty clothes they are very nice..blabla.but when they arrive i am like:so you call these clothes pretty?!
and they even dont get them stiched that way i tell them.never.no special designs.first i thought maybe they dont have the sense of fashion but when i saw their wardrobe i was shocked.i hate it.thats why i have told them not to send any clothes because they are always going to land in the trash.
what a nice topic ,i live in uk 14 year same thing happen to me my mother not well and she not do shopping for me when i asked for clothes to my inlaw they said ok we will and when parcal is arrived they send me chicken suits around 500 and said its bareeze ka hy and lawn ,cotton suits 500 , 600 and said brand ka hy bhat ache wali hye they think i am fooll i don’t know what they doing to me they wear always bareeze gulamed etc i don’t know why they do this to me when i pay for my own things NOW THANKS I FOUND PROTOTYPE ,AND GS:flowers:
this jealousy thing n not wanting others to wear what they hav chosen for themselves is inherently a widely seen paki phenomenon. ive seen here cousins etc n close relatives not telling or lying about clothes when complimented. they wudnt want u to wear what they r wearing them selves.
but i must say its a very very cheap thing to do, i have like 5 sisters in law and we all end up wearing clothes frm the same designer or same place at functions, and so one of the ppl i know( obviously frm my side of the family) asked me ... y do u tell them where u shop? and y do u have to tel em everytime u discover a good designer?. i dont pay attention to this kindda annoying uncalled for advice, but this is what a typical paki mentality is. its sad.
the world is such a small place now, one can look up the web n tel what designer one was wearing so a big booo all those ppl who r secretive about their shopping places n designers.
I think they do it, so you send them better things ... I have this chachi who sends us crap, and when she want something and we send something good, she says "oh, I didn't want this, couldn't you get anything better"
wtf?! have you forgotten what crap you sent us? ...
I think they do it, so you send them better things ... I have this chachi who sends us crap, and when she want something and we send something good, she says "oh, I didn't want this, couldn't you get anything better"
wtf?! have you forgotten what crap you sent us? ...
Its so so so true. great topic. It happens alot, with my relatives think they truly dnt have a clue at times, but Ive seen horrible stuff being sent to friends by relatives, itll be excusable if they wore stuff lyk that themselves but they dnt. ;-( Im nt saying its the same for everyone but it happens!
unless its ur mom or sis, (not even ur brothers wife ) no other person wud send u stuff that they wud hav forthemselves ,even if u send them money upfront with al the instructions. ud always get trash.
to all of you