i think ur family are right. And coming from a married person- trust me the sunlight isn't such an important issue to fuss over! When u look back in years to come at your pics all u will be noticing is you two and not the sunlight and how good it was. Photographers are quite good i'm sure they will do a good job whereever they do the shoot.
my sisters had her nikkah on friday, mehndi saturday and on the wedding sunday, there was a dua done then while everybody started their meal the couple went to a room for their photoshoot. The pics were wow, something out a magazine. so don't worry too much about the surroundings.
we had our nikkah in the masjid and the reception in the banquet hall next door. after the nikkah, the guests went to the hall for appetizers & dinner, and that was our chance to do a little photoshoot together on the masjid stage. It was great, no one was there except for my brother, the photographer and me and the hubby.
Also before I left to the go to the masjid, I had a photoshoot of just me outside my home..it was still day time and the shots came out great!
I dont think it matters very much if u dont have "sunlight" poses...u can always have them hte next day and still have good pictures on teh baraat day....
I think you should have the photographer takes some pictures of just YOU alone before the nikkah....you will get the sunlight pics you desire this way and still be able to incorporate some luvely poses. I'm sure you want some pics to be just of you so this will be a good balance.
Then once nikkah is over, have a photosession with your hubby! This will probably not take as long since the photographer will not be too worried about capturing solo shots of you since it had already been done.
personally this may be a bit blunt bit its your WEDDING! not your parents, or your inlaws or whoevers its YOUR WEDDING! tell them i WANT my nikkah done before so i can take pictures! tell them its my wedding i want it done a certain way, and if they dont agree say well then im doing pictures with my husband. seems to me your family is dictating everything to you when its your wedding, which is find is WRONG! n this seems to be the case most pakistani weddings, where the bride has no say n is totally undermined and looked at as a display piece with no brains and just to look pretty! if you want you pictures TELL your and have it your way! its your wedding not THIERS!
taking pics is not haram.....which mufti told u ???
if tht so thn why people take pics inside khana kaaba??????i hv many pics of mine inside haram and madina.......
pictures with a person who is not ur mehram is haram...
There are plenty of ultra conservative Muslims who believe that taking pictures of living things is haram. I think this is common knowlege.
personally this may be a bit blunt bit its your WEDDING! not your parents, or your inlaws or whoevers its YOUR WEDDING! tell them i WANT my nikkah done before so i can take pictures! tell them its my wedding i want it done a certain way, and if they dont agree say well then im doing pictures with my husband. seems to me your family is dictating everything to you when its your wedding, which is find is WRONG! n this seems to be the case most pakistani weddings, where the bride has no say n is totally undermined and looked at as a display piece with no brains and just to look pretty! if you want you pictures TELL your and have it your way! its your wedding not THIERS!
Yes!!!!! i knoww right....i think im gonna go ahead and just do the photshoot...I know it is wrong cause he is technically NOT my husband, but that day is the the MOST memorable day of my life....I want to capture it no matter what.
Hopefully my whole family will be too busy with their hair and makeup to even notice or make remarks that I am taking pictures.....
His name is Mufti Mohammed Sallallaho Alaihe Waslallam
Okay but were camera's even around back then? I know that is a general question...but I know how putting up pictures in your house can be wrong...because it is the same thing as worshipping idols....angels won't come into your house, etc.
Your wedding is the best day out of your life, you want to remember it forever and have your children...grandchildren etc. look at the pictures of the day you got married.
So what is wrong with taking pictures on that day....to keep in an album to look back on later? I really don't think Allah swt will punish us for doing that.
His name is Mufti Mohammed Sallallaho Alaihe Waslallam
where and when he said that
please quote properly bcz my mother asked from wife of MAULANA MAUDUDI 25 YEARS BACK she said for good purpose is not haram ,just like for women who visit men for salon services is also haram but from women is not.....
if i find you right i will stop taking pic for the rest of my life
it willl be good for the the knowledge of 100's ofmembers here.
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In ISLAM there r conditions for SOME topics,they are not haram straightaway,,,thanks
I have heard of some couples taking pictures befoer the nikah with a handkerchief placed in their hands in the hand holding pics. Abit exterme, I know, but something to consider.
Okay but were camera's even around back then? I know that is a general question...but I know how putting up pictures in your house can be wrong...because it is the same thing as worshipping idols....angels won't come into your house, etc.
Your wedding is the best day out of your life, you want to remember it forever and have your children...grandchildren etc. look at the pictures of the day you got married.
So what is wrong with taking pictures on that day....to keep in an album to look back on later? I really don't think Allah swt will punish us for doing that.
Okay but were camera's even around back then? I know that is a general question...but I know how putting up pictures in your house can be wrong...because it is the same thing as worshipping idols....angels won't come into your house, etc.
Your wedding is the best day out of your life, you want to remember it forever and have your children...grandchildren etc. look at the pictures of the day you got married.
So what is wrong with taking pictures on that day....to keep in an album to look back on later? I really don't think Allah swt will punish us for doing that.
even though i m not religious enough to not take pictures or even wait til nikah...i dont agree with you above statement.
Aallah knew what the time will bring...cameras invention was not a surprise for Allah...so saying that camera's were not invented at the back then hence the rule doesn't apply does not work.