Pick an option girls...

If you had a choice between an American-raised desi who has good education but a mediocre job and a much older guy living in this country for say 5-10 years with a fabulous job, which would you pick. Let’s take a poll :smokin:

which ones hotter?

okay how much older?

^ Suppose the guy is like 7-10 years older instead of the American raised guy who is practically the same age as the girl.

Hmm..thats depend who i like and what mah feelin is.

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^ Suppose the guy is like 7-10 years older instead of the American raised guy who is practically the same age as the girl.
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well in that case I would pick the older dude......not the younger American born

I would go for the American-raised one, if he has a good education, chances are he can find one later on. it all takes time, some are lucky to have great jobs and for some it takes time and hard work :)

and not to mention that much of a age difference for me atleast is horrifying, am not saying it's not right. cuz my ammi is 10 yrs younger then my dad and they get along fine and love eachother to pieces. but i can only go up to 5 yrs of difference

I would choose the person who actually accepts me as I am and treats me with total respect.

If you are superficial and your needs are immediate then go with the fob uncle….otherwise ‘grow’ with the other guy

the american dude is cool. Atleast he would be my age. And with a good education he can always bag a good job later. And anyway, I will be working too. So that ain't a big problem. :d

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I would choose the person who actually accepts me as I am and treats me with total respect.
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Baji ji, samalaykum

wudnt choose either.

The American dude... as long as he'll be eligible to work in Canada. :p

So you mean pick the job, rather than the guy?

Please check your common sense at the door before entering such
threads. :nono1:

shoot. I brought it in with me.

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shoot. I brought it in with me.
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^ you mean the one you borrowed from me?

Btw, you are not using it very well dq. She means she's bored :p

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^ you mean the one you borrowed from me?

Btw, you are not using it very well dq. She means she's bored :p
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2Bad jee you didnt have any to give to me in the first place. Im not using it well? Darn.Ubb kia karun?

I'd choose the older guy if I was the same age as you.

whichever one is more mature