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*Originally posted by funguy: *
LK - first of all SALUTE to you girl! It's great to see a woman 'craving for sex' and being vocal about it for a change. Usually i's always us horny men.
Looks like it's more of a peer pressure that's making you 'wanna do it'. My advice would be to not do it just for the sake of doing it. It can leave you with emotional baggage. Wait for the right relationship to blossom. Remember one thing, "first times only come once"... so make it a special one.
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LOL! Yeah FG "craving for sex" is an understatement.
Well peer pressure or more like..this someone happens to be my "ideal"..so my heatr is a bit "a-flutter" whenever he’s around..and we were debating whether my virginity was really worth it...he had the regular.."but your husband may not be a virgin..so why should you hold back?"...
Well I dont really care if the man I end u with is or is not a virgin...I have to deal with my own conscience and my own self respect.
And yeah...I'll definetly keep my first time for someone special..and he'll know just how special he is when he knows I kept myself only for him.
Once you do it, you wanna do it again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again, and again…
Whatever you decide, my only thign is make sure to use protection!!! I have had too many friends go through pregnancy scares and abortions because they didnt think ahead..
I am not sayin whether it is right or wrong before marriage and all that. That is for the individual to decide, but I hate to see couples who are physically involved with each other who just lie to themselves saying they cant get pregnant if they do this or that...... and once you have had sex with your partner, GET PROTECTION!! Because 9 times out of 10 it will happen again....
Fungo, what the hell are you talking about? Girls are generally hornier than guys, at any given time. I think you hang out with wood logs.
LK. It varies from person to person. I can speak for myself. I have had a few relationships before I got married – very few, I can count on both hands (twice), and I never got tired of being intimate with my partner (that will be a female). The more we did, the more I wanted to do. Sort of becoming addicted. And with age, I have gotten really good. I get compliments now from my wife on my performance.
MQ..jaani..worry you not...my head may be screwed but it's screwed on straight. Just debating here..BTW I won teh argument with the fella and not only that..I won a lil respect from him too.
GummyBear - don't worry sweetheart...I got your message loud and clear..I;ve seenmy pals get pregnant too..so yeah I'm well aware of what can happen.
Madhanee - Yeah us ladies are preeety horny...btw have any of teh virgins you've been with been super duper spectacular? If you have then Id like to think I'm one of them :D
I was reading this post till I reached this point. I burst into laughter here, kasam se. You are so freakingly honest and understanding type of the situation shikra portryaed. OMG
My two cents: As every person is different from other so are the feelings. None of us have same emotions and attachments so it cant be compared. Europe went through broken marriages in the industrail revolution finding the relationship too expensive to keep in all the senses. They are coming back to family and all issues. It was right for them then and it is right for them now. And one thing more; that legend “Sohni” is nevertheless sung so gracefully, you know
This is about the urge to have sex...does it relax once you've done it or do you become some maniac who can't get enough once you'vebroken away from your partner?
See, someone toldme that once you've done it then you won;t think about it anymore...but I think that once I do have sex I'm gonna want it more and more.
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well from i've heard from some ppl who've been down that road, of having physical relationships, they've told me that although they can keep it under control (if they're not in that relationship for a long period of time) but the urge won't ever go away, i think....
