Physical Relationship before marriage

[Afridi786]

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lol...I just know how women r...you have n e clue how easy it is to get action from desi girls these days? Of course not...ur living in ur own private world.

[K4plan]

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oh and if u2 are friends then please consider my humble apology and I'll just step aside. lol

[lussi]

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ofcourse there is dating/sex before marriage in pakistan...but is it as prevalent as among abcds? hell no!!..

thats why i have always been of the opinion and alwasy advise other folks to marry girls back from the homeland..hey if i wanted to marry a village bycycle id probably marry a gori..so steer clear of this abcd crowd..

[Cool_Breeze]

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@Afridi786

lol...I just know how women r...you have n e clue how easy it is to get action from desi girls these days? Of course not...ur living in ur own private world.

i think that you are around some wrong company

[hussain87]

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@Cool Breeze

plz don't generalize pakistani girls. a majority of them is much better than a majority of guys.

and i agree with that:) ......girl are always better then guys when it comes to fallowing our values as muslims.:) ......

[Cool_Breeze]

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@hussain87

and i agree with that:) ......girl are always better then guys when it comes to fallowing our values as muslims.:) ......

atleast there is someone here who understands

[K4plan]

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@lussi

ofcourse there is dating/sex before marriage in pakistan...but is it as prevalent as among abcds? hell no!!..

thats why i have always been of the opinion and alwasy advise other folks to marry girls back from the homeland..hey if i wanted to marry a village bycycle id probably marry a gori..so steer clear of this abcd crowd..

Yea but its difficult to marry someone with a totally different lifestyle and mentality (say Pakistani for instance) and settle in a western country with them, what a mission to teach fobby kids on how to live life western style.
Personally its better for ppl living in Pakistan to marry there and westerners to marry someone from a western country unless you're are totally religious and your way of life 'realistically' is route of Islam.

[Afridi786]

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and i agree with that:) ......girl are always better then guys when it comes to fallowing our values as muslims.:) ......
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...that is just a perception...

[Afridi786]

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@K4plan

Yea but its difficult to marry someone with a totally different lifestyle and mentality (say Pakistani for instance) and settle in a western country with them, what a mission to teach fobby kids on how to live life western style. Personally its better for ppl living in Pakistan to marry there and westerners to marry someone from a western country unless you're are totally religious and your way of life 'realistically' is route of Islam.

Again with the fobby stuff, don't be jealous that they r more in touch with Pakistani culture. n e ways what makes sum1 a fob? their style?

[K4plan]

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@Afridi786

Again with the fobby stuff, don't be jealous that they r more in touch with Pakistani culture.

Thats not my concern and neither does it relate to the initial point I was making.

I'm not a fan of culture, especially Pakistani. So yea.

I have fobby cousins and they are lovely ppl but I don't think they would be able to totally adjust themselves to the living style of life here. (Ofcourse there are the few who can but still thier way of thinking, judgement, mentality, personality makes all the difference)

[hussain87]

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@Afridi786

…that is just a perception…

no seriously man …i see mostly pakistani guys messing around then girls.:halo: …and u also have to take in consideration that parents most of the time have an eye on their daughters which isn,t the case with boys:) …

[lussi]

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@K4plan

Yea but its difficult to marry someone with a totally different lifestyle and mentality (say Pakistani for instance) and settle in a western country with them, what a mission to teach fobby kids on how to live life western style. Personally its better for ppl living in Pakistan to marry there and westerners to marry someone from a western country unless you're are totally religious and your way of life 'realistically' is route of Islam.

yeh ok..id rather put in effort acclimating them to western lifestyle than marry some abcd whore..its just personal preference..doesnt mean im right or wrong..just preference..

[Afridi786]

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no seriously man …i see mostly pakistani guys messing around then girls.:halo: …and u also have to take in consideration that parents most of the time have an eye on their daughters which isn,t the case with boys:) …

i can make a list of several girls that r sleeping around and their parents haven’t got a clue…and keeping an eye on them, maybe in Pakistan, no one in west goes around spying on their kids over here.

[Cool_Breeze]

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@K4plan

Thats not my concern and neither does it relate to the initial point I was making.

I'm not a fan of culture, especially Pakistani. So yea.

I have fobby cousins and they are lovely ppl but I don't think they would be able to totally adjust themselves to the living style of life here. (Ofcourse there are the few who can but still thier way of thinking, judgement, mentality, personality makes all the difference)

you know it all depends on both parties. if you have respect & sense of compromise for each other, it works.

[K4plan]

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@lussi

yeh ok..id rather put in effort acclimating them to western lifestyle than marry some abcd whore..its just personal preference..doesnt mean im right or wrong..just preference..

Yea mine was an opinion too. Don't worry you don't need to take it so personally that your only form of defense is to start throwing out repulsive remarks. Its all kewl. Opinions are always respected, even if they make absolutely no sense.

[Cool_Breeze]

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@Afridi786

i can make a list of several girls that r sleeping around and their parents haven't got a clue...and keeping an eye on them, maybe in Pakistan, no one in west goes around spying on their kids over here.

And i can make a list of several girls who are very strong in their values. Trust me, my list will be much much longer than yours

[Afridi786]

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@K4plan

Thats not my concern and neither does it relate to the initial point I was making.

I'm not a fan of culture, especially Pakistani. So yea.

I have fobby cousins and they are lovely ppl but I don't think they would be able to totally adjust themselves to the living style of life here. (Ofcourse there are the few who can but still thier way of thinking, judgement, mentality, personality makes all the difference)

u were born in west right? so it gives u no right to judge pakistani culture, n u dont have right to call urself pakistani if u hate the culture so much.

[K4plan]

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@Cool Breeze

you know it all depends on both parties. if you have respect & sense of compromise for each other, it works.

Oh yea I totally agree with that, but I am talking about the lifestyle in a western country compared to that of Pakistan being different. It makes it harder for Pakistanis to live in and adjust to the western life and vice versa.. same with westerners trying to live in Pakistan.
If both decide to compromise and one decides to give the other enuff time with patience to expose them to their new way of life, then it shouldn't be a prob.

[lussi]

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@K4plan

Yea mine was an opinion too. Don't worry you don't need to take it so personally that your only form of defense is to start throwing out repulsive remarks. Its all kewl. Opinions are always respected, even if they make absolutely no sense.

yea that was rather crude...but i was just trying to convey my point..dont know abt other guys but atleast to me virtue is far more important than any effort to reconcile different cultures/enviornemnts

[Cool_Breeze]

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@K4plan

Oh yea I totally agree with that, but I am talking about the lifestyle in a western country compared to that of Pakistan being different. It makes it harder for Pakistanis to live in and adjust to the western life and vice versa.. same with westerners trying to live in Pakistan. If both decide to compromise and one decides to give the other enuff time with patience to expose them to their new way of life, then it shouldn't be a prob.

now-a-days, communication is so advanced - media, internet etc etc. that people living in Pakistan specifically in cities usually understand the lifestyle here. Ofcourse exceptions are always there.