Physical Relationship before marriage

[K4plan]

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@Sabeila

every country has their sets of pakistani men and women who date/have physical relationships. Saro I think your hanging with the wrong crew if every male u isnt a virgin...maybe change ur group and you will see that not all pakistanis are sexually active...please dont stereotype :)

True say but whoever mentioned virgin UK lads are hard to find, are correct. The lifestyle here for Pakistani men is different and they are basically known to get away with murder. Whereas Pakistani women.. hmmm life is alot strict for them.

[Sabeila]

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well then again..I tend to think that its all a matter of who you talk too, im sure not all girls are innocent and not all the guys are devils!

[K4plan]

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@Sabeila

well then again..I tend to think that its all a matter of who you talk too, im sure not all girls are innocent and not all the guys are devils!

Well ofcourse but we are talking about majorities here and not each specific case in hand.

[Sabeila]

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yeah true that..how about we agree that their all kinds of people inthis world..some will do what others wont and vice versa :) as long as one has their own personal limit its all good no?

[K4plan]

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@Sabeila

yeah true that..how about we agree that their all kinds of people inthis world..some will do what others wont and vice versa :) as long as one has their own personal limit its all good no?

Agreed. Let them do as they please. We are in no place to judge anyone.

[PhatBalongri]

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@quas

A lot of young desi men feel left out when it comes to dating in the west cuz they think when others are enjoying the party they are sitting in the corner showing a nicer face when they have options.

lol what world do you live in? Even the freshest of the fobs are dating these days and its actually a lot worse in pakistan. You sound like me like 6 years ago lol back when i thought all pakistanis where good people, was i wrong or was I so wrong!

[K4plan]

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@PhatBalongri

lol what world do you live in? Even the freshest of the fobs are dating these days and its actually a lot worse in pakistan. You sound like me like 6 years ago lol back when i thought all pakistanis where good people, was i wrong or was I so wrong!

lol, true say.

[hussain87]

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@K4plan

lol, true say.

let us be honest ppl…woman here are more sluttier(same for guys) then woman in pakistan ever could become:o and i know thas a bitter pill for u to swallow. but thats the truth in my whole childhood that i lived in pakistan i have never seen a women and man going hand in hand even if they were married:) …so that show the moral of our society what they do private and alone is none of ur business cuz u were not there while here u can see girls doing these acts in public domain.:halo: … …this is just my opinion don,t take it as an insult cuz not all ppl are the same there are bad ppl too in pakistan but the magnitude isn,t same as in west:) …

[Orpheus]

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...who the hell cares? :o

[K4plan]

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@hussain87

let us be honest ppl…woman here are more sluttier(same for guys) then woman in pakistan ever could become:o and i know thas a bitter pill for u to swallow. but thats the truth in my whole childhood that i lived in pakistan i have never seen a women and man going hand in hand even if they were married:) …so that show the moral of our society what they do private and alone is none of ur business cuz u were not there while here u can see girls doing these acts in public domain.:halo: … …this is just my opinion don,t take it as an insult cuz not all ppl are the same there are bad ppl too in pakistan but the magnitude isn,t same as in west:) …

Sure, I respect your opinion.. I just don’t agree.

[hussain87]

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@K4plan

Sure, I respect your opinion.. I just don't agree.

we agree to disagree:) .............let me make it clear what i said wasn,t directed at any1 :) .......

[K4plan]

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@hussain87

we agree to disagree:) .............let me make it clear what i said wasn,t directed at any1 :) .......

I know.

Time and maturity will get you closer to the light at the end of the tunnel.

[hussain87]

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@K4plan

I know.

Time and maturity will get you closer to the light at the end of the tunnel.

i think i am mature enough to know whats wrong and good and whats happening in my neighborhood.:) ......anyway if i offended some1 i apologize and if u want i will edit that post:) ...........

[Cool_Breeze]

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@hussain87

let us be honest ppl…woman here are more sluttier(same for guys) then woman in pakistan ever could become:o and i know thas a bitter pill for u to swallow. but thats the truth in my whole childhood that i lived in pakistan i have never seen a women and man going hand in hand even if they were married:) …so that show the moral of our society what they do private and alone is none of ur business cuz u were not there while here u can see girls doing these acts in public domain.:halo: … …this is just my opinion don,t take it as an insult cuz not all ppl are the same there are bad ppl too in pakistan but the magnitude isn,t same as in west:) …

I agree with you.
THe problem is that we discuss about Pakistan when we aren’t living there so most of our discussion is based on word of mouth. Whatever someone says, we listen.
There are some facts that we can’t ignore.

1. A vast majority of Pakistanis is still living with their religion and values.
2. A lot of things have been changing there and being physical before marriage is one of them But its not as bad as in western countires so we can’t compare. We can only find a very very small percentage. People doing in the parks etc. is not very common.
3. Since it is against our religion & culture, if someone sees something happening there, they make a very big deal out of it (even sometimes/rarely in the newspapers too) which makes us feel that things are getting worst there.
4. People go for dating in PK but plz keep in mind that majority of them just go for lunch or coffee. And that is still a definition of dating back home.

Plz do not compare Pakistan with the West. and don’t say that situation is very bad after seeing one person in the park or listening from friends. Go, spend sometime there and see for yourself.

[PhatBalongri]

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you people make me laugh

[hussain87]

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@Cool Breeze

I agree with you.
THe problem is that we discuss about Pakistan when we aren’t living there so most of our discussion is based on word of mouth. Whatever someone says, we listen.
There are some facts that we can’t ignore.

1. A vast majority of Pakistanis is still living with their religion and values.
2. A lot of things have been changing there and being physical before marriage is one of them But its not as bad as in western countires so we can’t compare. We can only find a very very small percentage. People doing in the parks etc. is not very common.
3. Since it is against our religion & culture, if someone sees something happening there, they make a very big deal out of it (even sometimes/rarely in the newspapers too) which makes us feel that things are getting worst there.
4. People go for dating in PK but plz keep in mind that majority of them just go for lunch or coffee. And that is still a definition of dating back home.

Plz do not compare Pakistan with the West. and don’t say that situation is very bad after seeing one person in the park or listening from friends. Go, spend sometime there and see for yourself.

:k:yep most of time its just rumour or ppl make a big deal out a lil thing. …

you people make me laugh

kiya funny hai hummain to bi bataiye. …

[me01]

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@hussain87

no matter what u ppl say in pakistan girls are not that shamless that they will go hand in hand with a guy:halo: … like pakistani girls in west:halo: …

actually no not all, some do but you cant judge the whole nation based on a few peoples vulgar acts :halo:
i mean i know a lot of decent pakistani girls, who even though spent most of their lives in west but are islamic enough to know that “its not allowed” or considered decent!!!

[hussain87]

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@me01

actually no not all, some do but you cant judge the whole nation based on a few peoples vulgar acts :halo:
i mean i know a lot of decent pakistani girls, who even though spent most of their lives in west but are islamic enough to know that “its not allowed” or considered decent!!!

first of all who am i to judge some1…in gods court i will have to answer for my action not some1 else…i treat girl who are like this same way i will treat any other girl and thas with respect…altough i would never like them…its getting redicilouse :)… how can pakistanis living back home be more sluttier and thrashier then boys and girls living in west:confused: …i just don,t get it …yes their are some bad ppl but those bad ppl are on average better then most of us living our lifes in countries where u almost can do anything u want:) …and there are very decent ppl in west too but they area tiny miniorty compared to vast majority who do all these haraam things so i will never trust western pakistanis more then a pakistanis back home:halo: …

[Afridi786]

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When its a long term relationship....there is a very good chance of it turning in to a physical relationship...and we all know that girls get hornier than guys especially desi girls and dare I say muslim girls.

[Ex-Guppan]

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@PhatBalongri

you people make me laugh

Yep.... Ditto