Re: Physical Involvement
Before it was just some of us of men who were dirty but now girls in Pakistan are getting bold also. I’ve seen girls letting guys write their names on their shalwar (letting guys lean on their thighs and hips to sign their name as a memento) at end of school year functions–even most white girls don’t do this. And yes sitting on guys laps I’ve seen also or 20 year old uni girls hanging out with 40 year old men. Chatting with random guys on viber and whataspp. My best friend who grew up in the US but went to at a med school in Lahore said there are a relatively large number of girls (you can easily tell which ones) who are just so over the top and always down for anything—one girl took him back to her house and got naked for him. They dont usually give up their virginity before marriage but theyre usually down for everything else. My friend who grew up in US went to Lahore last month, she was very shocked at how some of the girls dressed and acted in public. Even when Its not completely sexual, there is still over the top and inapprorpiate stuff like that is becoming more and more prevalent.
Pakistani girls, usually the outgoing liberal ones, in US also are starting to marry outside of the religion.
And how some guys act in US and Pakistan I’m not even going to get into as its well documented.
There are still decent shareef men and women out there but it’s becoming more rare.