every girl wants to be with a fit & fat hatta-katta-sanda (i’m hatta katta but not very fit). i had polio [affected my left leg] when i was 8-9months old. my left leg is a lot weaker than my right leg and i limp a bit when i walk but that didn’t stop me from playing cricket and soccer (won many medals for being the best goalkeeper). so my question is: is this a factor that can influence [in a bad way] your rishta? not that 'im looking for any * but my mum is constantly asking me to find myself a girl and get married (i know who is behind my mom, my younger bro. usko bari AAG lagi hui hai shadi ki. :halo: )
so ppl start lying and make me feel better my offering me ur hand in marriage [girls only for now ]*
Hey I have seen disabled men getting married u atleast have both legs working. Would u be willing to marry a girl who's legs have also been affected by polio?
I think (and I am going to be honest with you) to alot of girls it does but then to some it doesn't. Why would you want to be with a girl who doesnt love you for who you are anyways?
Thats great saieen, but first of all ur post seems like a retalliation to that dark comlexion wala thread by some girl. Secondly even if I am wrong and u r being honest, what reason does any girl have to offer u her hand in marriage on a BB? Get to know somebody that interests you and see how it goes. Then take it to marriage.
And to answer that hidden question somewhere in the middle of ur post, if it was an arranged rishta then there is probably no way in the world that i would go for it. Astaghfar but thats the truth.
My second cousin married her fiance after he was paralyzed(i think both his legs) and shes like a hero in the family cuz everyone expected her to find someone else since she was real pretty. Personally I dont think she did something special or super hero-ish but then again there are people who do.
And to answer that hidden question somewhere in the middle of ur post, if it was an arranged rishta then there is probably no way in the world that i would go for it. Astaghfar but thats the truth.
What if God forbid the guy you marry becomes disabled after you marry him?
That would be an entirely different situation. If I loved someone truly I don;t think I would ditch them for something like that. I know its easier said than done but atleast that is what I believe right now.
Well, like someone said before, i dont think ud have any luck in the arranged thing to tell u the truth.. its based on looks and status, rather than personality.. get to know a grl, n if she rejects u *simply becoz of the leg (or complexion or if u live in an apartment instead of a mansion or whatever) well.. screw them
Im sure this is a great way to tell her abt ur leg btw
it is not super heroic but physical beauty does matter to a whole lot of folks and it is the initial reason most ppl are attracted to eachother. Your cousin had the choice to find another guy since she was just engaged but she didn't. I think she did an honorable thing.
the most important is not outlook but character morality and your financial ability to support your wife and children.
i'de more concern if you weree not able to work and earn money for your family, or help your wife with little kids....but as you won medals at sport, it shows you are able to live a "normal" life...so your leg ain't a problem...they are lots of ugly guys who get married, espcially through arrranged marriages, as long as you have money ;)
well beauty is the eyes of the beholder:D…i have just seen a lot of “not pretty” grooms in some desi mariage photos…close to young nice looking cheeks:D (maybe just cause of their make up:halo:)
Thats the difference between typical pakistani and me. I dont think she has a choice. You just dont leave people and break relationship cuz ones going through something difficult.
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