How affectionate are you/would you want to be in a relationship? I realize that due to our culture and religion, there are bondaries as to how affectionate (physically) you can be with someone prior to marriage. However, if your behaviour towards your family is any indication, would you say that you’re an affectionate person?
Would you voluntarily hold their hand, go hug or kiss them, initiate stuff, or are you the sort of person who does not like physical affection and being touched at all?
Would it bother you if your partner was not very affectionate and rarely wanted to hold hands or cuddle?
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Would you voluntarily hold their hand, go hug or kiss them, initiate stuff, or are you the sort of person who does not like physical affection and being touched at all?
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I don't mind holding hands with future partner or even a hug.. or ... :p
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Would it bother you if your partner was not very affectionate and rarely wanted to hold hands or cuddle?
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I want loads and loads of cuddles and hugs from my kids and my husband...
My parents aren't as tactile but doesn't stop me from hugging them..
Some people need that tactile affection and I am one of those..
I think it's because I'm so reserved and untactile with colleagues , If you can't be care free enough to have that from so called loved ones then what is the difference between them and outsiders..
Me and my husband remain reserved infront of our friends and family but when we are out and about on our own, there is a hug and a peck on the cheek involved. We hold hands when we go out, i feel so special…
I am not AS affectionate when it comes to holding hands etc. Touching me (can be anyone) every now and then is okay but too much touching ticks me off
p.s. I wanna say something about girls and wanna post a smart comment as to why we see such threads pop up every now and then but I don’t feel like being hit with tamatar, andey, sandal etc. :nahnah:
**Legal Notice: **Ladies, don’t get offended by what I am going to say, it’ll be all in good humor. If someone does get offended, grab Sara516 and beat her up because she said “Keh do, kuch nahi hota”…so here it comes.
Because of our culture/religion, obviously most girls can’t show affection (be it holding hands, hugging, kissing) prior to the marriage. After marriage, they have the legal and religious freedom and man they go nuts It’s like you are all used to a cute little teddy bear but after signing the documents, that cute little teddy bear becomes a big monster
i am quite affectionate with the people I love and admire. I always give hugs and kisses to the members in my family, and friends even if I see them everyday. :)
As far as being affectionate with my husband.....wellllllll.....you can only imagine!! If I'm so affectionate with my family and friends.......just think about how I am going to be with my husband!! :D
depends on what I feel like that time or day. Usually I’m not a very cuddly wuddly person.
It’s like you are all used to a cute little teddy bear but after signing the documents, that cute little teddy bear becomes a big monster 
