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HAHA. i love how i can get nomi to be serious with me by being mean to him.
HAHAHAHHA 
parey hat.
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Kisi ki jurat 
Jokes aside I got a thappar here and there from my Mum, harmless really. And I’ve never threatened my younger brother, not even in jest.
When I have disagreed with him when we were younger or now with my kid cousins a telling off always does the trick instead of threats.
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SHAK 
kahan thei betaaaaaaaaa
If i was your older sister i would totally beat the crap outta you.
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You didn’t look threatening 
You scare me as much as a fire scares water
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don’t make us unleash someone’s plane on you 
ha ha haaa.
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Being a youngest at my home, i never get a chance to hit my younger siblings :p.
My elder sisters never hit me or even scolded me in my childhood (but now they mostly do :p). We have very friendly relation. In fact i remember how they care about me a lot. But one of my elder sisters has some kind of roub on me... Us ki nazrein hi kafi hoti thin mery liye (even though i was very well behaved kid but little bit nadeedi :p). But they never hit me... and my parent never gave them that authority over me. In our family... nobody is elder or younger (in siblings only).... sub baraber hain....... :D
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i had chamats from my parents. and i think as siblings we barely had fights=/ it was a nono in my home . but umhm most of the times parents hit to take out the frustration they are holding.It does do no good in child's character building (which is the imp part)
and plus wo insan hi kya jo zubaan ki na sunay aur jootay say sunay.
We got your message :)
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I have seen a 3 year old hitting his 1 year old sister and it looks so bad.
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Erm I still pinch my sister, not in anger, just to annoy her 
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Although I am elder, I never got a chance to hit my siblings. I was told to refer the matter to the parents if I ever thought they did something wrong, and my parents would discipline them. We do hit and pinch each other just to annoy and mazak main and they hit/ pinch back on equal terms. So no chota bara rule applies in my family :p
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As a child I got beat about by just about everyone, parents elder siblings, kids at school, kids from the other village, kids from the towns and cities... basically I was the walking punchbag.
But it only lasted for a few years when after a good thrashing I came back twice as tough, all those whacks gave me tougher jaws, the falls gave me tougher bones and all the mental damage hardened me like beaten steel.
But it ruined my brains as you can probably tell... it destroyed part of the human brain thats supposed to think properly and instead I just became this nasty nutter who acutally got off fighting.
Seriously fighting became like a hobby, it became almost orgasmic... the feeling of beating the hell out of the world that hurt you, then it was suddenly sweet to hear other peoples bones crunching, thier faces turned to mush teeth scattered like marbles... it just gave you such a rush... something so savage and primal... when fights happened clothes and limbs literally got wrecked.
Others used to recoil at the sheer brutality but for a while it was brilliant... then later much later it dawned on me I wasd becoming a monster.... it took years to recover to some semblance of decency.
Still I am ashamed sometimes... for years I could smash a person up, and people used to call me every now and then to sort out some problems I was put in a police cell at 14 for beating another kid three years older than me and trying to strangle his life out... I was practically a murder waiting to happen....
Shame on me at the time my elders were scared of what I had become. All except one who looked after me despite everything and showed me that life was not all about smashing things.
Shame was dawning on me when I realised I had never been any use at anything so i put my strength to use in working for good things.
It got me a decent job several times... and today I look back on those days with awe...
I would never wish my children to live like I had done. I swore I would never beat my children... I just pray I never have to test my patience... if I have any that is.
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Seriously fighting became like a hobby, it became almost orgasmic....
disturbing.
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As a child I got beat about by just about everyone, parents elder siblings, kids at school, kids from the other village, kids from the towns and cities... basically I was the walking punchbag.
But it only lasted for a few years when after a good thrashing I came back twice as tough, all those whacks gave me tougher jaws, the falls gave me tougher bones and all the mental damage hardened me like beaten steel.
But it ruined my brains as you can probably tell... it destroyed part of the human brain thats supposed to think properly and instead I just became this nasty nutter who acutally got off fighting.
Seriously fighting became like a hobby, it became almost orgasmic... the feeling of beating the hell out of the world that hurt you, then it was suddenly sweet to hear other peoples bones crunching, thier faces turned to mush teeth scattered like marbles... it just gave you such a rush... something so savage and primal... when fights happened clothes and limbs literally got wrecked.
Others used to recoil at the sheer brutality but for a while it was brilliant... then later much later it dawned on me I wasd becoming a monster.... it took years to recover to some semblance of decency.
Still I am ashamed sometimes... for years I could smash a person up, and people used to call me every now and then to sort out some problems I was put in a police cell at 14 for beating another kid three years older than me and trying to strangle his life out... I was practically a murder waiting to happen....
Shame on me at the time my elders were scared of what I had become. All except one who looked after me despite everything and showed me that life was not all about smashing things.
Shame was dawning on me when I realised I had never been any use at anything so i put my strength to use in working for good things.
It got me a decent job several times... and today I look back on those days with awe...
I would never wish my children to live like I had done. I swore I would never beat my children... I just pray I never have to test my patience... if I have any that is.
O_o
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disturbing.
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Isn't it just, but many will tell you and theres scientific evidence to support this... the feeling of victory after a fight, particularly one in which severe injuries or near death experiences were felt and the adrenaline and surge of emotions after the win can be compared to activities like sex, drugs and rock music. It has a mind blowing effect on the person.
It's sad but true, there are people who seriously love fighting. With the right help you can steer them away from evil but without any help you will have a mentalist homicidal freak on your hands. Dont physically abuse your kids people or they might end up like Hannibal Lecter who was coincidentally based on a real life person.