Phyisical Traits in Rishta

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Re: Phyisical Traits in Rishta

@canadaaa

What if any phyisical qualities do you look for in a Rishta.

As a male the main physical traits I look for:

1. Is a solid body mass index (meaning she’s proportional to her height ie not fat but not skinny either). It may seem shallow to pick this trait but if a person is unable to manage their own body then how will they manage with the added stress of marriage.

2. Minimal body hair, I’ve seen girls in my class with sideburns thicker than mine, I’ve seen hair so long it has begun to curl on the nuckles, I saw a girl wear a sari who has a bear of a belly. I don’t want to sound shallow but when a woman’s body hair rivials mine I feel emasculated

1. Some people have a hard time losing and putting on weight due to their genetics. NOT because they can’t manage or take care of their body. I am a slim girl because of my genetics but I am physically very active and eat well. This is why superficial criterias sound very lame to me.

2. LOL, jeezzz, body hair are on a human body for a REASON. They serve a very profound biological function and yes, some do have more than others. Why should women have to go and shave their bodies to please men when body hair are such a natural thing :S. I understand that removal of body hair on certain areas ARE a religious obligation (due to cleanliness and hygeine) but I do not find it necessary to pluck out every little piece of hair on my face or my arms just so a guy can find me attractive. I can, however, lend him some of my bio books to increase his IQ.