Why do phuppos mess up everything? I had a rishta in which a friend of my mom's introduced her niece to me. Everything was going great until she decided to ruin it by bringing up her past Ristha which lasted for 3 years. This made things even more difficult with me and the girl because I had asked her about past relationships and told her about mine yet she played coy and said she was never involved with anyone. When I asked her about this dude whom she was involved for the past 3 years. She said Oh well it wasn't anything, when I decided to get serious with him I found out that he drank. But you couldn't have figure this out in the 3 years that you were in a f*k* relationship with him? JESUS CHRIST WOMEN ARE WHAT ARE WOMEN? Like which deal hath you signed with Lucifer? HUH! JESUS
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https://gupshup.org/forum/lifestyle/…rl-in-question
Is this still the same girl we’re talking about, a few years later..
Also, https://gupshup.org/forum/lifestyle/relationships/682455-multiple-partners
How many wives/sex-partners did you manage to have so far and still remain clueless about the female race
I believe that the girl should have been honest with you. Women sometimes struggle with how much they should reveal because they are judged harsher by society for things that men tend to get away with more easily. I do question the phuppo’s intentions. Either she’s the sort that blabs without thinking, or she’s cunning. It was not the phuppo’s place to reveal such information. That’s something that the girl herelf needs to do or perhaps her parents might step in and mention the past. But if this girl’s got a mom, it ain’t the phuppo’s place. This girl needs to give some thought to how she wants to broach the subject of former rishtas with future prospects. But phuppo Jee should not be present for future rishta meets.
Don't know about the phuphoo but hiding out official relationships of the past send out a wrong msg. If the girl had told you and your family about her previous relationship herself, i am sure phuphoo could not have led your family into whatever happened.
Everyone has a past.
why are phuppos so badnaam lol.
I could not comprehend what you are complaining about. Is it about your phuppo telling you about the girl's past or the girl not telling you about her past or both? The though process of men and women are different and that is the beauty and the curse of the relationship. Likely the girl will be feeling the same about you.
