Yep, my wedding planning has been drama, drama, drama.
First, everyone was upset that I married outside of our zaat (mom accidentally heard my mamu and Nana talking crap about it when they called to congratulate us but forgot to hang up the phone after). Then when my parents went to Pakiistan, no one helped them with anything claiming they were too busy.
My parents printed wedding cards with none of my family’s name (besides siblings) and told them that they’re more than welcome to NOT attend the wedding. My in laws are already aware of a particular khala of mine that has managed to ruin and end 2-3 rishtas that I’ve gotten in the past. To prevent drama, we didn’t invite her or anyone she’s friends with though I’ve been hearing whisperings of them trying to get invites/find out details about the shaadi.