Photographer Costs - who pays?

[Hmmna]

Re: Photographer Costs - who pays?

@soconfused

The wedding photographer is significantly more expensive for the mehndi/barat because it’s 2 functions and his family wanted to split the cost of that. I’m pretty sure walima one should be split too (it makes sense…if we had the same guy for all 3 events, we would’ve split it down the middle) but I got confused by what my mom said.

More than the money, the weird tension that’s now arisen between my parents and inlaws is stressing me out. I don’t want them to get the feeling that we’re nickel and diming them and vice versa.

I get it. The pre wedding time is usually fraught with these issues. I think you should split the walima one too if you can afford it.