Phool Haar On the Shaadi...How to Avoid?

[PunjabiRose]

@Spiral

Well you can’t say NO obviously becaue people who put the haar around your neck are just showing their affection and being happy for your big day. For a lot of us its a tradition. What you can do however is just take few pics to make the happy and take it off. That’s what i did. 2-3 pics with that haar. Took it off. But I am not going to say no to it.

That is a really perfect balance and makes everyone happy. Because you are absolutely right, even though you are not a fan of something, it is hard to say “no” to something when someone is putting it on you with affection or has even gone through the trouble of making it for you out of their luv. So this is a good compromise… take a few pics and then take it off.