Would you expect a person (could be anyone) to be involved in a relationship based upon only online dating for over five years?
Is it insane?
is it okay to trust someone you have been talking to for such a long time and have not met yet?
Just Wondering what you all think about it…
if the opinion of others matters so much why are u "dating" in the first place
this is 2k4.. most couples meet on internet date later and get 'formal' stuff done later.. time changes
It does sound strange or insane, but it's not. It's same as the stuff that used to happen in old days (it does happen now a days) when people used to accept their life partners chosen by their parents whom they had never met but only seen. I don't know why people think of it as being something insane. If anything bad happens that's your fate and bad stuff can still happen if the person is your parents choice or your choice.
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*Originally posted by Destinee: *
It does sound strange or insane, but it's not. It's same as the stuff that used to happen in old days (it does happen now a days) when people used to accept their life partners chosen by their parents whom they had never met but only seen. I don't know why people think of it as being something insane. If anything bad happens that's your fate and bad stuff can still happen if the person is your parents choice or your choice.
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agreed! but sometimes personalities differ in online and in real...
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*Originally posted by lalas2000: *
agreed! but sometimes personalities differ in online and in real...
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Well, online koi jinn bhoot to nahi bethay hotay. They're still human. And in real lives, they're humans too. If you fear that someone will betray you through internet he/she can also do that in real life. I've seen some cases of successful marriages of couples who met through internet and unsuccessful ones who didn't meet through internet. If you fear that the person could be different when you meet him/her that also happens after people get married. Most of them change.
So, again it's all a case of fate. There are a lot of sincere people on Gupshup and other places on the net. So, bad people exist everywhere on this earth not just the internet. Although it's a good source of making fools out of some people but they can also do that in real life.
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*Originally posted by Destinee: *
It does sound strange or insane, but it's not. It's same as the stuff that used to happen in old days (it does happen now a days) when people used to accept their life partners chosen by their parents whom they had never met but only seen. I don't know why people think of it as being something insane. If anything bad happens that's your fate and bad stuff can still happen if the person is your parents choice or your choice.
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stamped and agreed.....:D
hmmm…Interesting yet questionable.
Let me just answer hiccup’s question first…and i will get to everyone else later.
Well hiccup ji, others’ opinions don’t really matter, but I don’t always DO what I WANT to do. I think before I do something. However, this happened while ago and there is no way out now. I am very satisfied with my life, but now that I am old enough, I realize may be i should know what others think about it --not what they want me to do. That’s it buddy.
destinee ji and Aashi ji, both of you are very right about what you have stated. It is all about fate. Thanks