philosophy of life - effects of one's felt emotions and thoughts

[Dushwari]

Re: philosophy of life - effects of one's felt emotions and thoughts

thanks for ur comments, IconoClast.
u went right at the source of what i aimed to reflect on in this thread.

what u said, makes a lot of sense. balance is absolutely needed and so is a sense of prioritizing as well as dealing with issues at where & when they originated & not carrying them or their effect into other areas of ones' lives.

i see it happening in people our age, who normally won't take a respite in idle or health risking habits by be-numbing oneself, yet they have reached the maximum amount of stretch in their personalities, and now they want OUT.

young adults have this uncertainty as well as a need for a snap-out, from others who are genuinely helping and helpful.

i've learnt that giving space to people while they are in that state of indecision or lack of confidence over their ability to have control over their lives, arer best left alone sometimes, and not probed any further.

sometimes, all we need after the caring advice is offered, is to leave the person alone.

may we all be wise enough to crack it at all, without damaging ourselves.
amen.

dushi

@Iconoclast

I guess as far as work is concerned one CAN learn to leave everything at workplace and not carry them back at home, moreover, continued support to emotionally exhausted gives us sense of fllfilment.

But if such emotions are involved in personal and family relations then it must be very difficult to deal with.