I don't think that one cookie will make a difference, but maybe look for some low fat ones, though if one can avoid even one then nothing is better
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So wait is it 20 pounds or a 100?
I would marry a guy who respects me and treats me well even if he is overweight. Im on the chubbier side as well so we can both try and lose weight after getting hitched.
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I'm not talking about overweight. I'm talking about OBESE. Like a huge pot belly, double chin, maybe even triple. But cute face, nice smile, dimples, and you know he would look nice if he just lost the weight. That much weight is really hard to lose.
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I'm not talking about overweight. I'm talking about OBESE. Like a huge pot belly, double chin, maybe even triple. But cute face, nice smile, dimples, and you know he would look nice if he just lost the weight. That much weight is really hard to lose.
Yaar, it doesn't matter if some folks can overlook it, there are others who can't and if you're one of them...it's okay. I believe that you need to feel physically attracted to the person you're gonna marry and that it shouldn't have to come so hard...you shouldn't have to push yourself so much to feel it. So, if it's bugging you this much...then on to the next, pcg.
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As someone who has gone from obese to very smart, I disagree that people can't lose weight. It took like 2 years but I got it done. It is all about determination and will. If the person has ambition, will and determination characteristics in him, he can do it. He just needs to be told that this is becoming an issue and obstacle in the way of you considering him. If he's actually sincere in getting in to a relationship with you, he'll respect your wishes and try to make an effort. If he doesn't, you will know where you stand and you can sod it. Allow him then.
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I'm not talking about overweight. I'm talking about OBESE. Like a huge pot belly, double chin, maybe even triple. But cute face, nice smile, dimples, and you know he would look nice if he just lost the weight. That much weight is really hard to lose.
Don't look at the what ifs, just look at the now. The person isn't a diy project and they might live a content life that they're not willing to change for anyone. If you can't handle the fat then I don't think you should pursue the person. It'll only cause you and him more frustration.
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Sex would suck real bad .
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Are you talking about American fat? because so far I haven't seen any desi man or woman become that big O.O
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American fat, yep
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You should have met my dad’s sisters when you were in Karachi. When it comes to being fat, they can compete with most Americans 
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But he's just too busy to lose weight because he's a busy professional?
I think its more correct to say that loosing weight is not among his priorities :) because the excessive weight doesn't bother him much.
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Well when the wife is avoiding sex to prevent her bones from being broken by a whale, he will lose it.
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^
I wouldn't count on that. He'd get depressed, go out and put some more food in his fat belly.
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I would try to find out if he's at least willing and trying to lose weight or too lazy to do it?. You can't convince some people to go to the gym or eat healthy no matter what especially after they're already hitched and the motivation is not there anymore. If he's trying and there's hope, you both can adapt to a healthier life style together even before you get married.
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Get him a gastric bypass and liposuction as an engagement present. Problem solved
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If someone has to open a thread to decide if its ok to get into relationship with overweight person, that just means there is not enough connection from other means (other than physical attraction), perhaps they should not go into it.
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