pettiness in words, thoughts and actions

Re: pettiness in words, thoughts and actions

i agree that a partner starts degrading the other wen he finds him at his beck and call, he starts treating her like a toy at whom he can bring out all his aggression, anger, frustation and then later can place it back. the spouse is not even expected to say anything in return, if she does then she is blamed to b disrespectful. and if there are children that the things get more worse. if she consults family and friends, she is advised to tolerate. i am unable to find out the RELATIONSHIP in all this.