I dont claim to be a piuos man nor do I want to portray myself as a person who doesnt eye women at all.
But oh God, few people from our management really surprise me with their pervy comments about ladies. For example procurement manager is an over-weight middle aged person who constantly comments about ladies in the worst possible way. Sometimes we do have to sit in a room and work with managements on project tenders and stuff and those are somewhat irritating times. Sometimes you have to smile just because you want to ‘fit in’, sometimes you cannot help but present a stern face at pathetic petty jokes. But oh my God some of the management staff is perv. I wonder whats gonna happen to us when we reach that stage.
some guys are so blatant....in pakistan, attitude towards working ladies is even more pathetic ...i wear scarf and do everything that a good muslim girl shoudl do but still i feel as if somone's gonna backbite ...or would say something awful about me.....
CB- My old boss had some of those qualities and i use to sit there and bash him in the same way. I don't think i could ever equally get down to the same level as him plus an ass is always an ass.
CB - sometimes things go your way. Once my manager's pants got ripped literally all the way from his butt close to his thighs. I stopped everyone that day to say a thing to him. In my language i call it a revenge. It surprises me till this day he didnt feel a dang thing khair he is irish the only time he is conscious when he is drinking.
old bag of bones sitting at the gate leering at the girls wen one hot one approaches.''somebody get me my dentures'',he shouts and points a quivering hand to the dentures,''i wanna whistle at her''
music yeah its true believe it or not even in colleges students do that all the time... i heard espeically in graduate schools... i so hope i am wrong on this but...
But music if you know how to CYA- Believe me those guys will listen *grin
anyways MM obviously harassment is a power play and exists in all walks of life....from home to office....
my guy friend liked this hot girl who dumped him to go out with an older investment banker who actually promised her a job if she would sleep with him.
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1]someone from gs flirted n avoided a ticket.
2]secrataries do it all the time.her words ''all i need is to dress smartly n let em check me out''
3] man oh man this brings ugly memories.the girls in my group in med school did it so artfully,and got good grades while i had to study during rotations.
4]nurses do it all the time in the hopitals i have worked for
5]my colleagues did /do it in business school and got full attendance or favors from the clerks and the teachers.
6] attention:this actually happened
smart girl,busty,dropped a pen on the floor,bent down,looked up,batted eyelids ,and asked the professor ''sir may i pick it up''.i was there examining a patient.and i was like ''BC WTF,BC'' and she passed damnit.
7]i have seen them visibly letting their dupatta fall on the side like an acessory n arch their backs to u know enhance the elements that may draw interest from men.
and many more
PS: some also do it unintentionally like a built in defence mechanism,they rnt even aware they r doing it.observe n u will notice it too.
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women actually want to be used so they can get a bludy promotion?!?...well they'd might as well work in a brothel...they'll get paid triple for wat they r already doin in my opinion
1]someone from gs flirted n avoided a ticket.2]secrataries do it all the time.her words ''all i need is to dress smartly n let em check me out''3] man oh man this brings ugly memories.the girls in my group in med school did it so artfully,and got good grades while i had to study during rotations.4]nurses do it all the time in the hopitals i have worked for5]my colleagues did /do it in business school and got full attendance or favors from the clerks and the teachers.6] attention:this actually happenedsmart girl,busty,dropped a pen on the floor,bent down,looked up,batted eyelids ,and asked the professor ''sir may i pick it up''.i was there examining a patient.and i was like ''BC WTF,BC'' and she passed damnit.7]i have seen them visibly letting their dupatta fall on the side like an acessory n arch their backs to u know enhance the elements that may draw interest from men.
and many more
PS: some also do it unintentionally like a built in defence mechanism,they rnt even aware they r doing it.observe n u will notice it too.
i just want to say not everyone experiences it...maybe u guys are just putting the wrong perspective on it.
i worked last year in my gap year with loads english people. The men were so sweet in comparison to some of the women, who were just blatant bitches!. And, before any of u get the wrong idea there was no sexual comments or advances, they were just genuine, funny and nice guys who took me under their wing!
