Re: Perspectives…and blessings taken for granted
No, I never said that. Nothing in this world is 100% in my opinion. Based on my personal experience…every man I’ve ever come across checks out other women. Even when I’m out…I notice men glancing at other “hot” women (whether its someone in real life…model in a billboard etc).
Does this mean that there is not a single man in this planet who NEVER looks or feels attraction to a woman who is not his wife? No. But I would say that its safe bet that overwhelning majority of men do notice and “appreciate” women who they’re not married to.
If I’m not fulfilling my husband’s needs…of course there is a chance that its my fault. However, if my husband feels that the “solution” is for him to find another woman…then he’s free to do so. I’m also free to file for divorce, and find another man who will be satisfied with what I have to offer.
Whether that “other woman” is his wife, mistress, or a prostitute…the title doesn’t matter to me. The bottom line is that I’m not ok with my husband having sex with another woman.