Re: Personality change after marriage?
I don’t think you should actively seek out examples where a person did a complete 360 degree change for the worst after marriage. Positive examples also exist, so why not seek them out? Relationships evolve over time and with increased responsibilities (kids, etc), your priorities will naturally shift, That heady type of excitement in the initial stages will not last forever, but it doesn’t necessarily mean it’ll only be gloomy. Also, you don’t live with a couple 24/7, and there are two sides to the stories your married friends and relos tell you. If you believe that your fiance is your best friend and that you both are overall compatible even in spite of differences you have in personality, then MashaAllah you have a good start or foundation. Also, I would suggest that you avoid telling this aunti about your fiance and your relationship. Don’t tell her what he gifted you, where you guys went, what kind of a person he is, what your future plans are as a married couple. Nazar is a real thing, it does happen, and this aunti is not happy about marriage in general. And recite your 3 Quls, Aytal Qursa daily for protection. Most of us (including me) don’t do it.