Hey PK2010
I understand that they both spent a lot of time together…but it’s not like she was with him 24/7. Maybe he did find someone else. Maybe he felt stifled…or freaked out..and realized he wasn’t ready for a commitment. Maybe his parents changed their mind about the girl and he didn’t know how to explain this to her…so he just decided to end it. Or he plain lost interest.
People can give you a variety of reasons but you’ll never know which one it is right? Your guess is as good as ours.
One year later, and she’s still waiting for him. During this year, has he made the effort to contact her again? If not…then he has moved on…and it’s better if she moves on as well.
Sometimes you can’t get closure from the person you hurt you, so you have to provide it for yourself. As nice as he may seem…ending things abruptly (and so rudely) without explanation is not mature. And it’s hard to have a relationship with someone who can’t communicate maturely. It would have been worse if he ended a marriage without explanation. It’s easier said than done…but she should try to move forward with her life.