Perceptions

something you say, or do, at a given moment, in a certain context is generalized all over you.

you are someone totally different than the heavy and untruthful perception which is overlayed on your personality, and spirit. and worst - it is done by someone who you feel would by now know you well,

what thoughts cross your mind, and how disappointed do you feel?

from an outlook on life and philosophical reletavism point of view,
does such a peceptual mistake of that person, impresses on your mind, a sadness for that person for having acted this way, or do you see it as a limiting experience and never allow anybody else to hold their ascribed perceptions on yourself?

what are ways in which you might behave so that person may learn something good for his own sake, for his own good?

an instance: if someone said a word, ‘wild’ and now the other person thinks of the person who said the word ‘wild’ , as a wild person, how would you explain to the prejudging person, that saying the word wild does not meant that the person is also wild.

share if you perspective on this if you like.

Dushwari

Re: Perceptions

Dush,

(This is a fresh start so please help me if you find it offensive)

I think if one's intentions are clear, it shouldn't make any difference what other person makes out of his/her wordings. Sooner or later, people realize where they have made mistakes in their judgment. I think if one sticks to his/her philosophy then it helps other people to make a correct judgment. If one doesn't stick to his/her philosophy and diverges from it from time to time, then it leaves an open door for people to make their own judgments.

Re: Perceptions

sounds good. i agree. consistency is the key for not relinquishing faith in reviving one's or other people's actions - which were contaminated by wrong influences that caused biased perceptions in the first place.