yeah my nick represents me... lol
yes, all of you are right... but there is a difference... if there is a person who loves someone and it doesnt work and then moves on, thats a different story...
on the contrary, if there is a person who on purpose has a physical relationship with opposite sex or same sex(works nowadays) and then marries a decent person, then is that fair... even though he/she stops after marriage but still its not fair...
one partner stays on the right path, saves himself/herself from the evil or physical desires marries a person who is the other way round... its still not fair...
i bet u wish there was a test u could make ur future spouse pass before u get the green light to go ahead with the marriage..hehn jee?...:p