How you should deal with people of sensitive nature because they can so easily get hurt by little things/jokes ? and sometimes you dont even know/realize that they got hurted because of you when they keep their feelings to themselves.
How many of you are sensitive to other people’s words and feelings. How many of you pick up on everything, and feel very deeply if criticized?
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Its better to take people in confidence before sharing anything with them.People are usually sensitive with their closed and dear ones.
And since we know their nature as v r close to them,thus its beter to tackle them in appropriate way which doesnt hurt them.
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Everyone is sensitive in different ways, and when we are having a conversation it is up to us to do our best to think before we say something. but unfortunately this is a difficult thing for many people, infact they don't even realise that they have hurt the feelings of the person they are talking to, it's happened to me countless times where i have been on the recieving end of insensitivity. i do my best not to be insensitive to other peoples feelings and views but it is difficult and i am not perfect. humans can only try their best.
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Im such a blunt person that a sensitive person wud hate me lol
If i do come across a sensitive person i keep it very polite with them coz i cant open up to them if i cant tell them what im thinking. That keeps a distance naturally without trying so i guess coz of it i dont get too involved with sensitive folk
I can laugh at jokes about me, I even laugh at myself sometimes. But when someone laughs at me for something very awful which I never thought or did, then I don't like it.
I used to become angry and resented those people a lot, because they had told the most terrible lies against me. I hated them with all my heart, it really hurt me. Especially when friends I had cared about did that to me and when some of my family members did that on purpose to me. I hated them even more than hating strangers for lying about me, because those strangers don't know me, but my friends should have known better and my family is the worst, because my family lies against me on purpose.
Now I don't let anyone know anymore if they have hurt me. I walk around with a laugh and a smile. Often people are mistaken that I laugh and smile out of friendliness,I used to do that, however, nowadays I don't smile and laugh out of friendliness anymore, nowadays it means: none of your lies can make me unhappy anymore.
So I've become less sensitive now than before. I'm even being normal to people who tell the most terrible lies against me and I'm even being normal to family members who have done something more terrible to me.
Critisicm I can also take, but like with jokes, it has to be normal and real criticism. It has to be given in a normal way and about something I really have done wrong.
Is this the third time we're discussing sensitive natures, waterfall? or may be the fourth.
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if they easily pick-up fights then they are not sensitive as much as ppl think that they.
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Try to be as polite as possible and make sure you choose your words carefully so as not to give them the wrong idea about something. This only applies if you actually care enough to go that far.