..and don’t feel the need to give any input at all..
It used to be seen as a good thing when kids said this but are they looking at their future relationship with their wife or husband as not being that important?
(I’m talking about ppl who don’t want to be involved in the rishta process for themselves, not those whose choices are limited)
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It's "good" because it shows complete and utter trust in their parents to make the right decision....
whatever floats their boat.
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i don't think people don't give ''any'' input........there is always some input........
but still....... marriage is not something central to their existence/outlook on life.........so they are probably meh about it........
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Good thing about this approach is that you are not responsible of the outcome .
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Good thing about this approach is that you are not responsible of the outcome .
It doesn't really work this way. Couple of years into marriage you realize your parents didn't set you up right, but now you have kids. You're responsible for them aren't you.
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most likely they feel indebted to them for something that parents are supposed to provide for their children anyways 
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I have a friend who is like this. He says he will accept whosoever his parents chose for him. Normally I would bash such a person but I know him very well and he is one gem of a person and I have no doubt whatsoever he will turn out to be a good husband
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If they think that they personality is so that they can deal with and adjust with anyone & everyone even if the kitchen sink is thrown at them, why does it bothers other?
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It really depends. There may be many reasons for it:
1) firm faith that their parents would make the best decision
2) discomfort with the rishta process
3) yes, possibly a lack of seriousness/interest in it
4) annoyance with it (and thus trouble - since they will find faults in who parents chose)
^ those are some I thought of. It always depends.
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It doesn't really work this way. Couple of years into marriage you realize your parents didn't set you up right, but now you have kids. You're responsible for them aren't you.
Responsible and obligated is for sure as being a parents you can't ignore your kids, butif you are talking about pure marriage side of it then it leads to midlife crisis . Isn't it .
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More choices means more confusion.