Re: People who hate Desis the most are....
There are several factors behind this, I can only speak for myself & I cannot represent others. I have a certainly standard of living, I have certain type of friends & mix only with people I feel comfortable with no matter if they are desi or goray or kalay or peelay or neelay (I dont care). I never say Goray are better than desis.
1) Mostly desis look at you if u come from a different planet if you are walking with a gori wife, other nationality usualyl dont care.
2) 80% Desis are into corner shop business or driving cabs etc, other 20% are educated & have reasonable jobs (& mostly those are the ones who run away from other desis).
3) I of course wont like to live with cabby desis (or goray or kalay) not that hate them but because my mental or thinking level doesn't match them.
Why do I think like that,
1) I lived in London, where more than 50% of desis are asylum seekers, with low education & think that they have to earn "Ponday" or "Dallar" & no matter how the "Ponday or Dallar" come they should come.
2) I lived in Toronto, where desis are educated yet, most of the immigrants I met are pulling each others legs, I have a friend I went to school with for 7 years. I met him in Toronto & even found him feeling proud & telling me that he is much better than others because he bring 2600 CAD Home from his job as procurement officer. I made some really good desi friends in Toronto but mostly there I found that education didnt improve their mental capacity.
3) I lived in Amsterdam, met couple of mirpuri families & must admit they were the best desis I met in Europe, perhaps they didn't live in UK thats why the children were well educated & much better behaved than any mirpuri I met in UK. Then I met desis people in Bajlmer & thought "Allah nay inn kee kami yahaan bhee nahee chhori".
Anyway - in the end - my reasons of keeping away myself from desis is that - I dont wanna meet Metric failed desi who came to Europe to earn "Ponday or Dalar" and speaks English in Jhang accent & only talks about short-cut ways to make quick money & tells me "Bhaijaan tussi gori keetee hoee ay?"
Others may have their own reasons.