Re: People who cant see the Real you...
even when you try to indicate to them, that you are a good person, that you could be a really nice person to be around and they still dont see the real you, the good you, not just the fiesty you, then what do you do?
- stick with your zeal to prove to them that you are also a good person and persist in letting that person see that you are good
- seek help of someone who can help bring the two people together
- leave that person alone for good
- leave that person alone to rethink over the person's own misjudgments about you
- admit that fate does not want the two together share your thoughts, if you like. best, Dushwari
note: applies to both intimate and non intimate human interactions.
you can't force someone to see something good in you. if you try and be your normal self and they still think you are a crap person, then let it go. in fact, if someone said crap about me, then i would obviously try to make them realise they were wrong (human nature), but there is only so much you can do. you cannot force someone to see good in you. it's not worth it. do you really want to be fighting your whole life trying to prove yourself?