Re: People pleaser/can’t say no
Hmm, you’re so right! I never thought of it that way 
Ok while we’re on the topic, another thing that bothers me is my inability when being pursued by a male who is just clearly very disrespectful or vulgar, again I have trouble saying no in a loud firm voice… If I say no once and they continue I usually dont say it again, mostly out of fear of what he might do/ say to me after getting rejected, and that results in the retard getting ideas that I may be interested or playing hard to get, or just plain shy. Most of my friends think I just like the attention and thats why I’m not saying anything, but I swear thats not the case! It’s so hard to explain.