A has an argument with B. B says something and A doesn’t like it.
Now in A’s clever little head all he can think is that ‘oh B said this maliciously so I’ll be an arse too’
Now, my question is this, WHY do people think with such a retarded thought process?
Not that I am a saint or a fluffy bunny myself but when I argue I usually sit down and think ‘hey maybe he/she had a point and were right in what they said’.
In other words in my head the first thing that goes after arguments is trying to justify the OTHER person’s POV and trying to see the REASONING behind what they said. And I think it helps, as it doesn’t make my head big and it makes me accept when I am not right and maybe make me apologise to the other person.
Now why doesn’t saara jahaan apply this simple thing so we can all live and khilar sakoon se?
If god gave us a brain to use then there are a million or more examples where human beings generally don't use their brain. If god gave us a brain and the thinking capability then people won't be killing each other in this world, won't be back biting, won't be hurting peoples feelings and many other things. If only human beings can start using what god has already given us, then that would be awesome.
Oh as for your thread, sometimes in anger, people forget to use their brain. True fact. That could be why it happens like that. It is not always EGO KA MASLA.
