People having problems with Daughters

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It's ridiculous to take another wife because they want a son, the idiots don't realise that it's usually from the father that the sex of the kids is determined.

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I only read first post and replying.

My brother has 3 daughters we didn't frown upon and didn't say a single word. As my mom was beta lover for whole our life but she didn't say a single word to her baho that she want a pota she loved so much to all her poties and took care of them.

My whole family didn't frown upon and didn't get mad or un happy. Why would we Allah gave them they have to take care of their daughter.

My bhabhi was three daughters and later got 2 bhaies.

My bhabhi she doesn't like her daughter herself and tell people that we don't like her girls. She tries anything to to let them die. We take care of them more than her.

She offer everyone to take her daughter. One of my brothers friend who doesn't their own kid and adopted 1 girl (brought her up like abnormal and jealous person). Offered her to take her 3rd daughter. She did all secretly. When other lady told to my mom. My mom got mad why would I give my kid to someone else. My bhabhi didn't listen to her husband and my mom. So my mom called my elder brother she only listens to him. He is in other country so he called and talk to her then she stopped.

She use to give kinife in kids hands when girl was 9 months old. Use to put her on kichens high counter to let her fall and leave that place. We all the time keep checking.

She use to leave them when too young on the side of bed where they use to fall many time. My elder brother told her many time not to do that she can get hit badly on her had and become mazoor or something. She didn't listen to him too. Many time girls fell from bed so once my brother hit her. If next time you would do that I'll beat you very badly. Then she stopped.

She use to put her on floor when she was 6 months and herself use to walk on her hand. Oh my Allah I can't believe. As you guys knew I'm so straight forward I use to say what you doing. She get mad at me.

My mom never left her alone as my brother use to ask her that come and live with me she only told me that if I would leave she will kill my poties and I don't want to let her do that.

She use to leave childs on the floor and child use to go to toilet and drink commot's water and many things.

Once my mom was visiting my brother when she called her then my bhabhi told that once all kids were jumping on the bed she was sitting there but on the other end. One of her child felt and didn't come she didn't check when after a long time she didn't show up then she checked and found she was bayhosh and something was coming out of her mouth.

Then she called my brother and went to hopital. She didn't disclose to us but her friend the woman she wanted to give her her own child told my sister infront of her that she get mirgi daura since that day she fell so you have to take care.

What kind of mother she is. I use to cry for those girls.

Baitiaan Allah ki rehmat hoteen hain. Unki to ziada qadr karni chahyay kia pata kaisay ghar main jaay aur unkay saath kia sulook ho is liaay betion ka to ziada khiaal rakhna chahyay. In my opinion.

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Many time girls fell from bed so once my brother hit her. If next time you would do that I'll beat you very badly. Then she stopped.
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that is one evil woman. she deserves alot more than that.....

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Yeah.

Only my elder brother can control her. Neither her husband nor my mom. She hates me as I say if she does wrong to kids. She shows them naked things on tv and cable. Once I said you can watch if you want to but don't expose her to these kind of thing. She get mad at me. My mom and sister told me not to say anything what she does let her do. Since then I stopped saying anything. I don't want to see my bhateejies see those filthy stuff. Funny thing is my that brother was so religious type. He was telling her that parwarish karo aisi jaisi meri maan nain meri bahnon ki kia hai. My sister laughed when said that. lol

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Gr8Heera, your bhabi is a crazy woman!!! how can someone be so cruel.

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What a sad, awful story Gr8! In USA, a woman such as this would lose her children and likely go to jail - or at least be sent for psychiatric help.

In the west, its the daughters who take care of the elders most of the time. The sons are the ones who leave home. In my own family, it was my sister who quit her job and moved 4 states away from her newly-wed husband for the duration of my father's battle with cancer. She lived with my parents and cared for my dad around the clock for one year. I would leave my boyz in the care of my husband and fly down for a week or two every chance I got. My brother, who lives 10 minutes away from mom and dad, would stop in for brief visits once or twice a week.

Daughters are a blessing, a wondrous wonderful blessing. How I'd love to have one of these unwanted daughters!!

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^ Very well said. :k: :k:

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Gr8heera may b ur bro should take his wife to a phsycatrist.she looks mentally ill.

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Thanks everyone.

Yeah I use to tell my mom that tell her it is so very wrong once she even left 4 year the eldest one with other two girls alone and locked the door.

I told that if anything will happen to kids they will take all of you to jail. Ask her not to do that again. That is so dangerous for girls.

You guys can't imagine she did what not to kill them. Allah bachanay wala hai.

She even left them on a busy road while shopping. One of my bhateeji went on a busy road right in the middle and the lady did a full break who was coming very fast and my bhateeji inch ki farq say buch gai as she did full break and the sound of the break got attention of all then my mom cried where is her poti and then they saw towards the sound and found my bhateeji.

She use to leave in Mall 4 year kid and other younger. My sister who had her own little kid and use to take her daughter in her goad to prevent from missing.

I day I saw same khuwab that happened to my bhateeji as I love her so much. I called my mom and asked how is my bhateeji and told her about my khuwaab and said khiaal rakhiaay ga. She said same happend to her as you are discribing. She was so amazed every situation was same as I saw.

My family didn't tell me that I get worried about things.

Allah bachanay wala hai. Jissay Allah rakhna chahay ussay koi naheen mar sakta hai.

1 lady said meri bhi teen larkiaan hain per main apni larkion kay saath kuttay billi wala sulook naheen karti jis tarha yay karti hai.

Allah tala pata naheen kioon aisay logon ko larkian ziada day dayta hai jo larkion ko pasand naheen kartay.

My brother can't control her. I also think she is some kind of psycho. make sounds. All of a sudden start singing and make faces like abnormals.

Now Alhamdiliaah she got some better with the girls I hope. But sister told me in front of both how they do behave 1 of her middle girl and she is behaving like some kind of abnormal. I asked not to do and told how to conrol her problems.

I wanted to adopt the middle girl but if anything hepen to her living with me she will blame me and my whole family will go against me. As she know how to make them fool. I don't say things.

I feel so sorry for that girl. I want to adopt her to help my brother and his wife but I don't want to be blamed. Allah say dua hai kay usko aqal day aur buchchon ki madad karay.

Yay baat to main nain usko achchi tarha ammi say samjhawa di hai kay agar kuch huwa kisi aik kay saath bhi to baqi bachchay bhi cheen lay gi hukumat aur us ko bhi saza day gi.

Now she change a little bit. Now I don't know what she does. As my mom passed away and I don't talk to her. She don't tell what she does.

Timepass - November 2012