I am calm now lol, but imagine if someone came up to you and said that to you after you had a daughter. I haven't had one yet, but I am sure it hurts like a dagger to the heart for the parents.
I am just still in shock that people still think this way.
We had a thread about this issue not too long ago and honestly some people said some really sensible things there - explaining the mentality behind it, how they looked at it, etc. Let me see if I can find it for you.
Also, we are four sisters and believe me my mom had to deal with pretty ugly stuff.
It doesn't shock me anymore, honestly.