welcome happy heart!
yea this is the OFFICIAL hangout place for paki dutchies :D
where in holland are you from?
as for the definition of conservatism ... i dont know how to explain this to you without creating a controversy .... since it brings in a lot of sensitive issues ..
but to keep it simple ... keep your head clean ... and save yourself from the evil of gossiping ... do whatever you want and dont comlpain about what someone else is doing .. because you aren't answerable for anyone but yourself ...
LIVE AND LET LIVE.
so ... how conservative are you?