welcome happy heart!
yea this is the OFFICIAL hangout place for paki dutchies 
where in holland are you from?
as for the definition of conservatism … i dont know how to explain this to you without creating a controversy … since it brings in a lot of sensitive issues ..
but to keep it simple … keep your head clean … and save yourself from the evil of gossiping … do whatever you want and dont comlpain about what someone else is doing .. because you aren’t answerable for anyone but yourself …
LIVE AND LET LIVE.
so … how conservative are you?