Hey farrah , i am living in The Netherlands and am from Rotterdam as well :)
I can understand what you mean that some pakistanis may frighten you lol ! But believe me they aren't that bas as they may seem! I personally dont have many pakistani friends either... so are you here for studies or did you join your husband as in family reunion ?
You can pm me anytime maybe we can meet up , i work at an office in rotterdam city centre u can hop down any time you want :) dont feel lonely you have a sister here :)