Peaceful Protests In Kashmir Alter Equation for India

I really dont get this 'cultural ties with Pakistan' you guys seem to think Kashmir has. Ive lived in Islamabad for a couple of years, even went to school there for a while (froebels), and seriously, culturally there are hardly ANY similarities, religious yes, cultural no. Just because we can speak urdu doesnt mean we're the same lol, and most kashmiris at home tend to speak koshur (the ones with brains do so anyway). And koshur is totally unrelated to urdu/punjabi etc, the only Pakistani language it has similarities with is khowar (chitrali), and some other random dardic lingos of the Northern Areas.