Re: PCOS and rishtas
Even if all the guys say “yes”…you need to remember that YOU are the one taking all the risks. The guy has nothing to lose if you share this information. You, on the other hand, are risking becoming the new hot gossip in the community.
I believe you also have a younger (?) unmarried sister. Your parents are not heavily involved in the community which means other families can’t “vouch” for them. If something likes this gets out in the community…it also has the potential to effect your sister in the future b/c again, we all know how desi aunties tend to blow things out of proportion (Ex. PCG has PCOS…OMG she’s infertile…hmm…is something “wrong” with her sister too?!).
Really think about how sharing this can effect YOU and YOUR blood family first before worrying about the guy’s feelings.