Come on man. Catholics have been sued to hilt. And the church has to sell their stuff to pay to the victims.
Then you say you want to solve things within the family. This is what catholics did even **when their members were sexually used/abused by pirs **and bishops.
FYI the fraudster pir is NOT your family.
let me give you an example. If you know a shopkeeper is selling soiled meat, then you DO NOT go to that shop. And instead find a place where you will get the things you want without getting defrauded.
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It looks like you and your family are still in the grip of that pir even if you claim you are not.
This is called stockholm syndrome.** If you don’t know, then google it and you will find why are you stuck in the wrong position with the wrong people.
Not only that, you are inadvertently inviting other victims to get snared by the pir.