pathans

[Black_Mamba]

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@Attia

okk so are u saying that tajiks and pathans are different ppl ?
no dear they are all afghan. doesn’t matter if they are tajiks or pathans…
… there is no difference between them..

Yes there is a lot of difference between them.

[lazy_daisy]

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^ yep, huge differences..... they'd probably kill you for saying that they are the same......lol,

be careful Attia!

[ASA]

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wah kya patay ke baat ke hai… mujay tu neend nahi aati untill i drink 2 , 3 glass of humen blood…

[bhangra_jin]

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@ChupKeSe

just a question…i’m curious coz i’ve heard this a lot…if u give ur word to a pathan…then take it back…r they gonna kill u???

what?

[ChupKeSe]

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@lazy_daisy

Chupkese… I think practically all pathans from Afghanistan, Pakistan or those who live in other parts of the world will NEVER kill you if you go back on your word.

Traditionally Pathans have live strict code of instuctions, some of these are good, some not so compatible with today’s way of thinking.

Now this code helped the people to live their lives according to the ways and customs and culture of that particular community. All communities/sets of peoples around the world have there own set of rules governing their way of life.

Pathans have (in my opinion) have some of the amazing… melmastia for example
Which is means the tradition of offering food, shelter and safety to a traveller or anybody who comes to your home… some would even offer them your life (I wouldnt go that far…my life is far too precious!) as shown recently in Wana
This would also apply to an enemy… traditionally if your enemy came to your home… you’d supply all the love and care and attention

let them leave give 'em a a day or so and then you can go after them to

You will hear lots of stereotypes about different people and cultures and I believe that not all are true although there may be an element of truth in it.
Take a look at all the individual people around you… do they portray the stereotypical characteristics of their hereditary background… ?

Ive always heard that Punjabies eat nothing but dhal… is that true?

u should write my essays for me. thank u for that…ok so lemme tell u a story…the pathan uncles daughter runs away n gets married to the guy she likes coz her family didnt allow marriage outside the family…so the beta kills that guy for running away with his sister…and he kills his sister too…wut the hellll is that all bout??? where do u get guts to do such a thing? so if ur gonna give ur word to a family like that…n then u take it back..do they kill u too?

[Princess_Fiona]

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@Black Mamba

Yes there is a lot of difference between them.

ok here lemme give u an example of how they are different:
for example a real pathan and u there is a big difference hay na

[Princess_Fiona]

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@lazy_daisy

^ yep, huge differences… they’d probably kill you for saying that they are the same…lol,

be careful Attia!

lazy jeee … u telling me to be scared of mamba
u tell him to be scared of me

[lazy_daisy]

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Chupkese, Because I have not been given the full story.... just a few lines to outline the gist of it I can only advise upon the issues Ive gleaned from your post.

As far as I can see from your post, a girl from a traditional family(i dont know which country) ie a family that uphold these rules and regulations decides to leave home of her own accord.... disregarding the feelings of her parents(that chap and chappess who gave birth to her and nurtured and raised her)
in order to absond and live with a young man who she thought in her infinite wisdom, was somebody she wanted to marry and live the rest of her life with in marital bliss.

This girl would have known what kind of family she came from, what values they hold dear and what would happen if those value were contravened.

Did you hear that..... She would have known what would happen if she crossed the line, now... its not necessarily something I agree with but it happens.

The concept of honour is very important in that culture, and this girl had sullied her family's reputation in the community and amongst relatives. The family would probably be ostrescised and ridiculed(even in the uk) and this would fuel anger which would in turn lead to the tragic end to this couple. This is not something that happens in Pathan families it also happens with Saudi's, Kurds, Middle Eastern peoples. and North Africans as well as Sikhs and Hindu's and Pak Punjabies too. Honour is very important in all societies in the world....

Anyway, the girl got to live with her partner to the end of her life!

Now for your question about giving youre word to a family like that,
If that family hadnt gone and done their daughter in would you think that you can give your word to that family and then break your promise,

to be continued.........

[Roman]

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auntie lazy_vaisy, what do you have against us Punjabis (or is it Punjabies?) You think we don't deserve meat? :(

[lazy_daisy]

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Roman.............go away!

[Roman]

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How rude! :(

[lazy_daisy]

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Its a misconception that makes its rounds amongst certain spheres… I was using it as an example.

Dont be sad, Romananian:flower1:

[pietra_dura]

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[shivangi]

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correct if im wrong is shahid afridi a pathan?

[lazy_daisy]

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I dont need to correct you because you havent made an incorrect statement, merely asked a question.... and there is no crime in that.

As for Shahid Afridi, I'm afraid I cannot give you the answer because I dont know.... but to compensate I can tell you how to make a nice chocolate cake.

[Roman]

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daisy_vaisy, can you also tell how to eat it too?

[ASA]

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@shivangi

correct if im wrong is shahid afridi a pathan?

YES he is … i know him personally

[Wran_Alak]

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taso tollo mazgha kharaab dee

[lazy_daisy]

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Wran Alack............. I think youre right.

But hey, If you cant beat em.... join em!

[Wran_Alak]

Re: pathans

@lazy_daisy

Wran Alack… I think youre right.

But hey, If you cant beat em… join em!

if i join them then it means that me too pagal…duniya kam ze tha orasey da aur de khalqo khabaro tha gora…