Re: Past
the basis of any marriage SHOULD be trust and a thing like a divorce is not something to hide ( or can be hidden for long )
......... it is something that must have been obviously traumatic and had a large effect on shaping her outlook on life and to a large extent her thinking & character , so it is important to put such things out in the open for both partners to understand each other better......
Any relationship that is not based on trust , won't survive too long...