Passwords n Trust

Shikra · July 20, 2008, 11:21pm

Alright imagine this scenario, you are going to Pakistan and your best friend asks you that she wants to change the profile picture in your facebook account to a pic of both of you together and because you are so busy in packing and do not have time to go online you give her your password and tell her you can change the picture BUT you say please do not see my messages and other walls because i would not feel comfortable. However, she reads your messages.
You tell her that you will change it when you have a minute. If it doesn’t get changed before you you travel, TOUGH LUCK! he/she can survive and life will go on even if the picture doesn’t get updated. If he/she takes it to heart and wants to break off friendship, then go right ahead because that person was not your true friend to begin with. A true friend will never ask for the password.
Your fiance tells you that he wants to forward a mail in your account to his and he wants to ‘check’ something and he eggs you on with the reasoning that he is your fiance and you think alright he is my fiance and i am going to marry him and he keeps on telling you “tum password kyon nahi dena chahti? kya chupa rahi ho tum mujhse? mujhse pyar nahi karti kya?”
Again, he’s a fiance and not a husband. He should trust you that you are not hiding anything from him. If he doesn’t trust you, is he the right person?
Your husband wants your password for one simple reason, i am your husband, i have to have your password. Trust me i will not open your account i just want to know it because i feel you are my wife and i should have your password.
There is no harm in sharing the password with the spouse because both must know each and everything about each other. If there is any misunderstanding or doubt because of something as stupid as this (not sharing passwords), you don’t want it to have an effect on your marriage. Besides, if the husband trusts you, he wouldn’t ask for your password anyway.
In all three scenarios, these are people you should or you do trust and a lot. They tell you yes yes we will not access it or see your personal things we just want to know your password. You give it, they break the trust. What now ?

I am sorry but your post doesn’t make much sense. I’ve answered the questions in bold above. Again, I get your question that what should you do if someone breaks your trust, but there are things that you CAN do to avoid that situation.