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that one was indeed meant for you 
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If someone gauges 'trust' in relationship by the virtue of sharing (or not sharing) password , then God have mercy on their relationship.
That would be very sad.
It all depends on the comfort zones people have. Some people are just more to themselves than others, no big deal.
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For some couples it can be problematic, and for others not so much. My dad has shared his email password with all of us....but we don't go into his account to look at his emails.
For me personally......I don't feel comfortable with sharing my password with my spouse. I wouldn't do it and neither would I ask him to share his. And I think it's ridiculous for some people to argue that well they must have something hide if they're not going to share and that's not healthy for our this matrimonial journey that we will embark up upon, lol. Sure there's a possibility that you might have something to hide.....but not necessarily. There are things that I prefer to discuss with my sister or with girlfriends....which I wouldn't want others privy to. Also, in most cases....if someone is cheating on you or involved in shady activities....you'll see signs elsewhere too.
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That would be very sad.
It all depends on the comfort zones people have. Some people are just more to themselves than others, no big deal.
Well its more than 'personal comfort zone' things. This is also a privacy issue. For example, I'd really feel odd (and outraged) to find out that mails that I wrote to my DR were actually read by his wife and she knows my medical history etc. I'll also feel uncomfortable reading mails for my wife as I might end up reading one from her friend (or some of female relative) that was meant for only her eyes. List goes on and on...
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No password sharing for sure. I have had worst experience sharing password with ex-girlfriend. Very annoying. I like to maintain passwords and emails myself no need my future spouse to be do anything with it. Also, someone other than me..looking through mobile...i find that offensive for weird reason. Don't find it offensive if my sisters do..
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sisters FTW!
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what is FTW?
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you peeps are soo unromantic, because you know, romance truly depends on sharing your passwords 
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I think it does show trust and comfort level esp when in a long distance relationship..but otherwise if you are living together you already know black, white and grey of your SO. then password sharing becomes kind of unnecessary. Esp when he is coming back straight home from work everyday and often running off to home earlier before time too 
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^ I dont know. I like my space and like to give him his. Whether he needs it or not. Id rather not pry. I dont like it if someone opens my personal mail, even my parents. And I love them a lot. Love has nothing to do with it
FTW is for the win
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I would never share my passwords or let him check through my phone when I find someone.
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in our life time,
we meet 10000 ppl
we know 1000 ppl
we adore 10 ppl
we love only one
and still need space - not messed up equation you ask me
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Its not like we sat down one day and told each other all our passwords. But if I need to get something from his email or he needs something from mine (pictures our family sends, links we've been emailed) we'll just tell each other to go in and get it.
As for cell phones, we know each others password just because sometimes we use the other persons phone.
Like someone said its a non issue, some I know some I don't, its not a big deal.
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Whats wrong with wanting space?
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you mean whats wrong with wanting space from everyone?
Whats wrong with wanting space?
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Whats wrong with wanting space away from your husband?
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let me ask you this, why would you want space from your husband? who you sleep with, raise children with, would be spending 30+ years of your life?
what is the basic philosophy behind the philosophy of wanting space/privacy from your spouse?
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its like almost complete jigsaw with one piece missing
Whats wrong with wanting space away from your husband?
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Because sometimes its nice to just be on your own.
I sometimes like space from my family, after dinner we all go off and do our own thing and dont disturb each other and its nice to just sit do your own thing and unwind.
Or like my dad will take a trip with his university friends to releive him from the stresses of everyday life and when my dad does that me and my mum do stuff together.
everyone needs space.
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being chipkoo is not good