Re: Password sharing
ifs and buts are just there to give variable scenarios.
Now a hypothetical situation:
you are overworked and thinking of some huge techincal project at work. Now your spouse obviously senses you are pre-occupied. Would you like it if she keeps pestering you ‘kya baat hai..ap pareshan hain..kya hua hai…mujhe to batayein’
Wouldn’t that irk you ? She being a housewife or in some completely other profession wouldn’t understand all the technicalities. So her continuous pestering would get on your nerves, wouldn’t it? That is what giving space means. Your SO can sense something is wrong but is considerate enough to let you deal with it on your own and give you the space and time to talk about it when you want to.
Now about sharing passwords. I think it would be immature to ask one’s SO to give me all their passwords, bank pins etc and snooping in their phones or accounts. This means there is lack of trust. When one is living together asking for such time becomes unimportant because eventually a person would know everything naturally without ASKING for it.
That’s all about space.