Re: pasand ki shadi n mums
im always amazed at how similar topics are opened one right after hte other. Just an observation.
You're stuck between a rock and a hard place. I knwo this is not hte most Pc-thing to say, but since you are not married and if you absolutely HAVE to choose, I'd say side with the mother. (you dont have the luxury of this decision after shadi). Plus, your mom seems like she is considerate and all...after all she agreed to the rishta b/c of you. most guys aren't that lucky.
G'luck buddy :D