Re: pasand ki shadi n mums
Ok...lemme clear something out for you. There will be some sort of saas bahu drama or problems regardless of if you marry this girl or another. The best you can do is marry this girl that you like and still give time to your mom like you do now. SOmetimes mothers get clingy to their sons when the bahu comes just because they are insecure. Once she sees how well behaved this girl is with you and with her and how caring, she hopefully will change her opinion. The girl might have to be patient during this time.
Can you also present this dilemma to your mother? Tell her of the good qualities you see in the girl and ensure your mom you want to marry someone who will care for the parents as well?